Recently I noticed by the time I was able to get to the foyer, most had left to go home. That was what I thought until I walked to the parking lot. There, I found where everybody was having a great time - yep, in the parking lot. Now, when I come off stage, I exit backstage and walk straight to the parking lot. Now, I am usually the first one out there.
As I leader, learn to leader. Make yourself learn to linger. Stay around. Hang out. Build and invest in lives.